i just finished reading "The Naked Husband" by Mark D'arbanville, and i must say, it has put adultery in a different light. i'm not sure if the book is out to justify it, but it certainly explains a few things but misses out the obvious- why, then? why marry that person you married if, years later, you desperately want to end it? when do two people who are in love with each other cross the line where they just love each other and not be 'in love'?

i wish my father had the answers.

looking back, there were too much shouting and screaming and crying, but there was also silence. every waking hour of everynight. all i hear is myself, pleading why.